Ghosting, the act of abruptly ending communication without warning, often carries a negative reputation. It’s seen as cold, impolite and confusing.

But in a world where technology allows us to be reached instantly, we’re often expected to be available at all hours, and that’s simply unrealistic. Not only do we not owe everyone a reply, but we also do not need to make ourselves available 24/7 just because we carry a phone.

The concept of ghosting is often criticized because it can lead to misunderstandings or hurt feelings. After all, ignoring someone after multiple dates or cutting off a relationship without explanation feels wrong in certain contexts. 

Some situations deserve more clarity out of respect for the time invested. After six dates or when a bond has formed, ghosting might not be the best approach.

But there are circumstances where ghosting is not only acceptable but wise. 

Take, for instance, situations where someone — whether romantic or platonic — has made you feel unsafe or doesn’t respect your boundaries. Ghosting becomes not just an option, but a necessity.

An abuser certainly is not owed an explanation.

If a person has disregarded your well-being, responding to them with politeness or continued communication should not be a priority.

There are other reasons for ghosting, such as someone from high school reaching out after years of no contact.

 Usually, people who have lost touch over time have been fizzled out for a reason. While it might be kind of them to check in or reach out, you are not obligated to get back to that person. 

Especially as a college student, there’s often little spare time for that. 

Ghosting, in the right situations, can be a tool of self-preservation. 

While it is not always the most diplomatic option, there are valid instances where protecting your boundaries and well-being takes priority over someone else’s potential confusion.

In a world where everyone demands constant attention and instant replies, sometimes silence is the healthiest response.